Five Book Friday!

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And just like that, we find ourselves in a new month, and preparing for the first Five Book Friday of May.  It’s quite the auspicious month…in addition to Mother’s Day, which is the highest grossing day for collect calls and one of the busiest travel days of the year, and don’t forget to go get a card for the maternal people in your lives, and Memorial Day, which commemorates the end of the American Civil War and was established to honor American serviceperons killed in wars….May is also  when publishers really start getting ready for rising sales during the summer travel and vacation season, which means that we are getting spoiled for choices over which books to feature here today!

New books are, in and of themselves a cause for celebration, and goodness knows we are huge fans of throwing parties here at the Free For All.  But in case you would like a slight bit more justification to throw a party, here are some uniquely May holidays for which you can begin preparing:

May 12: Our one year anniversary!  You know this is going to be a cause of enormous festivities

May 15: Family Festival at Brooksby Farm!  This celebration is brought to you courtesy of the City of Peabody, as the kick-off of the “Peabody 100” celebrations this year (marking Peabody’s centennial year as a city).  You can find more information on this event, and all the other neat things that are going on this year right here.

May 19: Hummus Day: I really, really love food holidays, if you hadn’t yet noticed, but it appears that there are a great many other people who also enjoy Hummus Day.  In fact, Hummus Day has its own website, which you can visit here.

May 25: National Tap Dance Day: Originally signed into law in by President George H.W. Bush in 1989 to commemorate the birthday of famous tap dancer and film star Bill “Bojangles” Robinson, this is a holiday that has been unofficially celebrated by fellow tap dancers ever since.  So get your clickety-clackety shoes on and have at it!

May 28: National Hamburger Day: I am almost positive this is just a very good excuse to get people to buy hamburgers for their Memorial Day cookouts, but far be it from me to get in the way of a national holiday!

So now that your social calendar has been attended to, let’s take a look at some of the books that have made it onto our shelves this week!

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3708738Father’s DayPublishers have a very interesting sense of humor, so the interesting timing of Simon Van Booy’s was, I’m sure, calculated by someone.  But this moving story about loss, love, and family in all its many forms is timely, no matter the month.  A tragedy leaves six-year-old Harvey alone in the world, except for her Uncle Jason, a haunted, disabled felon.  There is, perhaps, no one less qualified to care for a young child, but, left with no other choice, Jason and Harvey set out to create a new life for themselves out of their past heartbreak.  This book moves between the past and Harvey’s present, making for a tale that Publishers Weekly adored, calling it a “Moving, redemptive new novel…The third-person narrative gives both characters their own, distinctive voices that nonetheless change over time. Van Booy creates refreshing, humorous, yet poignant childhood milestones that the two reach with emotional honesty.”

3733227Quiet Neighbors:  In Catriona McPherson’s latest book, Jude, a young woman on the run comes back to the one place where she knows she can find answers–an old bookstore in a small, isolated town.  Welcomed, as ever, by the books and by the shop’s owner, Lowell, Jude is grateful for a place to settle down…even if it is in the gravedigger’s cottage.  But there are as many secrets as there are books around Jude, and as the darkness of her own past creeps ever closer, Jude finds that the idyllic village is hardly the haven she first thought.  Mystery Scene magazine loved this one, saying “Quiet Neighbors is a cleverly conceived, skillfully executed, decidedly nontraditional small-town mystery that is bursting at the seams with warmth, wit, moxie, and menace.”

3708739Hystopia: David Mean’s first novel is an alternate history, novel-within-a-novel mind-bender of a book, but it’s also being hailed as a literary triumph…and a darned good read.  It opens in President John F. Kennedy’s third term (after surviving an assassination attempt during his first term), with the Vietnam War raging to ever more horrific heights.  In order to deal with the nation’s ‘moral hygiene’ and the overwhelming mental trauma with which returning veterans are forced with grapple, the President has unveiled the Psych Corps, an agency dedicated to wiping out unpleasant memories, and isolating those who minds are too scarred to be ‘healed’.  Into the maelstrom comes twenty-two-year old Eugene Allen, a Vietnam veteran who is determined to exorcise his demons through writing a great American novel, which makes up the heart and soul of this work.  The New York Times loved this book, hailing, “It’s a meditation on war (not just Vietnam, Mr. Means suggests, but the continuum of combat that links veterans through history) and the toll it takes on soldiers and families and loved ones. It’s also a portrait of a troubled America in the late 1960s and early ’70s…and uncannily familiar, in many ways, to America today.”

3740328The Naturalist : Theodore Roosevelt, a lifetime of exploration, and the triumph of American natural history: There is a lot, both good and bad, to say about Teddy Roosevelt–as witnessed by the sheer number of books published on his life, deeds, and legacy.  One of his most enduring, and least contested legacies, however, is his devoted to biology, environmentalism, and the American landscape, and it is this passion that Darrin Lunde(himself a Supervisory Museum Specialist at the Smithsonian’s National Museum of Natural History) captures in his newest book on the great man.  Though ostensibly a biography of Roosevelt, it is also a chronicle of his lifelong love of natural biology, beginning with his avid studies as a child, and continuing all the way through to his post-presidential work, championing the cause of nature and environmentalism, in a work that publisher’s weekly calls a “mix of biography and examination of the field of natural history preservation. Lunde covers Roosevelt’s environmental activism and his accomplishments in political office, most notably his lobbying for the establishment of Yellowstone National Park, and impressively narrates how Roosevelt was able to pursue his passions during a contentious political career.”

3727396Flavorwalla: Floyd Cardoz built a name for himself by bringing extraordinary flavors to everyday foods and using spice to turn a dish into something distinct and memorable–and in this book, he gives you all his tips and tricks for turning even the most familiar dishes into a culinary marvel.  With a keen understanding of spices–how they taste, how they taste together, and how precisely they enrich a particular flavor–and an honest love of the act of cooking, Cardoz’s book makes you want to try all your old favorites for the first time…and the stunning photographs by Lauren Volo certainly help, too!  Publisher’s Weekly devoured this book (hardy har), saying “Cardoz’s emphasis is on flavor and the final product, rather than culinary showmanship. . . . A fun, fresh, and inspiring collection that deserves room on any self-respecting home cook’s bookshelf.”

Our Newest Addition!

Visitors to the Main Library may have already met our newest, as-yet-unnamed companion…the Grand and Glorious Book Drop!

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Isn’t he lovely?!

Our book drop made quite the arduous journey all the way from California to be here with all of us, and is now happily ensconced just inside out gates, to the side of our front stairs.

He’s a very friendly beasties, is our Book Drop, always ready to take care of any library materials you wish to drop off, whether we are open or closed.  And just so you know how it all works, in the morning, our incredible custodians go out and fetch all the materials that Book Drop has collected, and bring them to the circulation desk, where we check them in.  When we check them in, we backdate them.  That means that if your stuff is due on Thursday, and you leave that stuff with Book Drop on Thursday, we will check it in as if it were Thursday, so you don’t get charged any fines.  And at the end of the day 30 minutes before we close, our custodians head back out again to fetch any materials that Book Drop has collected, so we can check those things in, as well.

Book Drop is very, very eager to meet you, and loves feeling useful, so by all means, stop by, welcome him to the neighborhood, and feel free to bring him your library materials.  Just make sure you use the proper drop: books on the left, media (non-book things) on the right!

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Now…there’s just one more thing to do.

Book Drop doesn’t have a name.

And if he’s going to be with us for a long, long time, as indeed, he is, I think we need to make some effort at making him feel welcome–and a name is a very good place to start.  So get your thinking caps on, beloved patrons, and give us some ideas.  We’ll be having an official naming ceremony soon!

One More Post About Books That Made Me Cry…

ab0c870ffd359072d82d6c86d98e6fcfI was a very, very lucky kid, because, growing up, my dad read to me every single night before bed.  We read everything from classics to fairy tales, from board books to chapter books, and everything in between.  When he would travel for work, he would read the stories onto a tape, so I could listen to them at bedtime.  It was great…

…Except this one night, when we got to the end of one particular book that shall remain nameless (because I can’t tell you the title without giving away the whole shebang), that had what most people might call a bittersweet ending.

For ten-year-old me, it wasn’t bittersweet.  It was heartbreaking.  Like, stay-up-for-an-hour-ugly-crying heartbreaking.  As I noted yesterday, I don’t handle sad endings well at all, but at ten, I had no defenses at all to this kind of heartbreak, and so all I could do was cry on my poor father’s shoulder until I was too tired to be awake anymore….

After that, and for a while afterwards, my dad and I started reading Garfield comics before bed.  We still got all the joys of reading together, and we got to laugh together, too–as we’ve noted, one of the most therapeutic, stress-reducing things the body can do.  And there was no worries that I would have another ugly-crying session.

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Thanks, Garfield!

As I’ve mentioned before, I–and several readers I’ve met–won’t read books that make them cry, because some of us just don’t finding sad-crying cathartic.  And that is absolutely your choice.

What I don’t mind, though, is books that make me happy-cry.  Or giggle-cry.  You know…those books that just make you smile so hard, or makes your heart flutter (metaphorically speaking) so much that tears just spring to your eyes.  Those kind of books are much, much harder to find, but they are out there.  And those kind of books are precisely, exactly what I need to make a gloomy day better.  And since today is a pretty gloomy day out there…I figured I’d share some of my precious happy-cry books with you, in the hopes that it might brighten your day!

3092802Follow My Lead: I’ve mentioned this book in posts before, but that is because it is just so much fun, and so touching, and so wonderfully unexpected that I want to hand out copies on street corners.  The relationship between Winifred and Jason Cummings, Duke of Rayne on their trans-European roadtrip from Hell is one of my favorites in romance, because both of them, though they certainly have their issues, are, at heart, good and kind people who want the other to be happy.  This results in some of the most touching interactions I can remember–particularly when Jason moves Heaven and Earth to get a souvenir for Win to remember her trip. It’s one of the smallest, silliest things, but it never fails to make me happy-cry just a little.

2041597Mike Nelson’s Mind Over Matters:  Mike Nelson was a head writer, and host of Mystery Science Theater 3000, which I love.  Perhaps a bit too much, it’s true, but that’s beside the point.  Nelson also wrote a few books, one of which is this collection of essays on everything from Radio Shack to men’s fashions to tea, and back again.  Each one is delightfully absurd, surprisingly insightful, and each have the same brilliant wit that made Mystery Science Theater 3000 such a total joy.  This is definitely a giggle-cry book.  It’s also a “scare people by guffawing in public while reading” book.  But laughter is contagious, so maybe that’s not such a bad thing after all…

1940046Carpe Jugulum: Terry Pratchett’s Discworld Series is just plain one of the most joyful, inspiring, funny, satirical, and wonderful things you can find, and Carpe Jugulum is my favorite book in this series, which is saying quite a good deal.  It is a delightful blend of literary satire and homage, as the King of Discworld decides to invite a nearby vampire family, the Magpyrs, to his kingdom to celebrate the birth of his son.  But the Maypyrs have spent years trying to fit into  good society, exposing their children to sunlight and force-feeding them garlic with every meal…and they have no plans to go anywhere.  On the other side of the castle walls, Granny Weatherwax has joined forced with a hapless local priest to force the vampires out, resulting in an adventure that is sarcastic and wonderful and so uproarious that I can’t avoid a little bit of giggle-happy-crying throughout this adventure.

Book Anxiety Is No Reason To Cry

I’d like to tell you a quick story:

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Once upon a time, a fictional patron came to a fictional circulation desk to pick up a fictional book.  As the fictional circulation assistant was checking this book out, the woman put a hand out to stop her, and asked, “Wait just a moment–have you read this book?”

“I have,” replied the fictional circulation assistant.  “It’s one of my favorites.”

“Good.  Then tell me–is it sad?”

The fictional circulation assistant stopped and looked up.  “Well…yes.”  She said slowly.  “But it’s not a tragedy.”

“Will I cry?”  Asked the fictional patron.  “I really don’t like crying at books.  Just tell me.  Tell me I can read it without worrying…”

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Like so many good stories, this story is inspired by real events.  And I use it as an example of how a brave reader deals with book anxiety.

Book anxiety, as Lady Pole has mentioned, is very real.   It’s a condition that affects me, as well.  As a person who deals very frequently with issues of anxiety, I personally read to escape the world.  To meet and come to understand people in a way I can’t in The Real World, and to get out of my own skin for a little while, and air out my brain and my imagination.  The three of us work much better together afterwards, after the reading break

As a result, I really, really try to avoid books that I know are going to make me sad-cry.  For me, sad-crying at a book is not cathartic.  Struggle with the death of a character I have grown to love is not “cleansing”.  It’s traumatic.  When your escape route, the path down which you run when everything else is just too loud, too much, and too close, is full of tragedy, or loss, or sadness, it ceases to be an escape.  It becomes a trap.  And traps hurt.  The loss of a character with whom I have bonded is like an actual death to me, and, because reading is largely a solitary activity, I have to deal with that loss alone.  And that isn’t fun at all.

I see lists very often online about “53 Books That Will Definitely Make You Cry” or “10 Devastatingly Sad Books“.   Maybe you are one of those people who see those lists and click eagerly, ready with your box of tissues and your library card.  I am not one of those people.  I appreciate knowing that a particular title is sad, but I also appreciate knowing that I don’t have to read it, ever.

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Like the patron in the story above, I very often ask for, or seek out “spoilers” to books; major plot points that give away a significant part of the story.  It’s not “cheating”, because I don’t want to read the book, and it’s not “lazy”, because I don’t want to put the effort into the book.  The truth is, I’m asking because I want to read the book; I just don’t want to come out at the end worse than when I went in.

Incidentally, this is one of the reasons I love romance novels.  I truly appreciate the guarantee implicit in the genre that neither of the protagonists will die, and that the ending will be a happy one for all involved.

cryreadingIn fact, in the story above, I think what the fictional patron did is really quite brave.  Asking ahead about a book shows a good deal of self-awareness and self-care.  If there were certain foods that caused you a problem, you would ask about them in a restaurant, right?  If there was a fabric that irritated your skin, you would check the tag before buying a shirt.  Many people check the website Does the Dog Die?, a site which tells you whether any pets are hurt or die in a film, in order to decide whether it’s something they want to go see, knowing that such a scene would upset them.  Checking out the plot and contents of a book is very much the same for many of us, and there isn’t a comprehensive system in place to let us know.

In the end, the point I am trying to make is that we all read differently, for different reasons, and with the hope of different results.  And that is great–and also why there are so many books on the shelves today.  You have the right to read whichever of those books you want.  And you have the right to ask in advance if the book you have chosen will make you cry.  And you can also know that we will do our best to let you know ahead of time, in whatever level of detail you might like or need.

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